" I am an expression of the devine, just like a peach is, just like a fish is. I have a right to be this way.  I can't apologise for that, nor can I change it, nor do I want to" 

   就像一顆桃子,一尾魚,我的存在也是上帝力量的展現。我有權利做我自己,我無意為自己的模樣道歉,我也不想。

---Alice Walker  (The Color Purple)

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 I'm not sure who is setting the rule for this world, and just like that, we all happen to know by heart the right is appeared to be right and the wrong is desinated to be wrong.

我不確定是誰在為這個世界設定規範,但大家似乎都對分辨對錯這件事,有著與生俱來的能力。

  

Although we are fully awared of this that each of us are unique and different, and we should love who we are and respect whoever seem not to be that much alike. We still can't help to restrain that differences from our confort zone, and call that "open minded" to filter according to preference.    

儘管我們都知道每一個生命個體都是特別的存在,就算他們與自己的認知有所差異,也應該愛自己然後尊重別人。但我麼還是無法自拔的把“差異”抑制在我們的舒適圈外,用喜好來篩選自己可以接受的“差異”之外,還以為這就是"開明"的表現。

 

  

Sometime it's really hard to do things right as it seems so wrong from the eyes of the others. To be more specific, is it wrong to end a 10 years relationship resolutely? Or is it right to disguise to be happy when it's not. How do you decide which hard is harder? or which hard is easier? Suffice it to say, nothing is meant to be wrong even though it's violating everyone else's common sense.

有時候做自己覺得對的事情,是非常困難的,正因為大家都覺得是錯的。這樣比喻好了,請問堅決的結束一段10年的戀情比較錯,還是不開心也假裝沒事比較對?我們怎麼決定哪一個障礙比較困難,或者哪一個挫折比較容易?簡單的來說,我覺得就算違反別人眼中的常理,也不一定是錯的。

So, stop telling people what to do is right , it isn't education either to force others to become something similar like you. 

所以,停止告訴別人怎麼做比較對吧!不自覺的把他們變成跟你相似的東西,也不能稱作為"教育"。

  

 

我很喜歡的一段話:

“真實不是你長什麼樣子,而是發生在你身上的事。

當你變得很真實的時候,你就不會介意痛了。

整個人會變得破破爛爛的,但這些事一點都不要緊,

因為你一但變得真實,就不會是醜陋的,除非是在不懂得人的眼裡。”

But these things don't matter at all, because once you are Real you can't be ugly, except to people who don't understand.

---- Margery Williams

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