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Have you ever spent some years time with someone who was once your best   and forever friend but you never understand the reason? By that I mean he or she is now probably a familiar stranger to you, and ironically the status may stay forever. 

不知道你們有沒有這種不知道為什麼會變朋友的好朋友？曾經還以為會一輩子一起很久很久，但現在卻像是陌生人一樣，曾經了解彼此，而後的人生卻再也沒有交集。

Giving and receiving, we share a story and we shall listen to theirs simultaneously. But, ask yourself this simple question, are you really listening? Most of the time we care only about our own happiness, sadness or whatever emotion of the day, we simply lost that instincts to feel for others. 

給予和接收，就像我們分享的同時也聆聽。但問問自己吧，是否真的有用心聆聽過？也許這麼長時間以來，我們都只在乎自己的喜怒哀樂或任何情緒起伏，然後，失去了感同身受的基本能力。

I guess people do change, for good or bad, we just can't get to think people will act the same as we thought it is, even the right choice seems that much obvious from our sight.  

我想人都會變，而無論變好或變壞，我們都沒辦法預設任何行為表現，就算所謂 ''對的決定'' 在我們的眼裡是那麼的顯而易見。

Let's put it this way, if they don't see selfishness in them, I'm not sure how can that be changed? 

我想這樣表達最合適吧，自己都看不到的自私，我不確定那要怎麼改變？